Sunday 6 May 2012

AMIGO PARA SIEMPRE

Dear Bablu sir


This is a small dedication from my side to you on YOUR DAY. First of all i wish you a very very happy birthday. You are simply an amazing person and i feel truly privileged to have known you. Do not take it as a testimony, something we used to do when Orkut was a craze and we would dedicate hundreds and thousands of lines on our friends. 


The thought of writing something about you just came instantly to me, as in probably just about ten minutes back. In these past 8 months that i have known you, i have silently observed a lot of things about you most of which, if applied positively on myself can make me much better person. Amongst all the fun and frolic we have in the campus, you are the one who brings a lot of sanity to our group. The way you handle the pressure and demands in the campus truly are worth noting and need to be badly applied by me.


To keep it short i hope i will have the opportunities in future to have many more memorable moments with you, and keep learning something or the other from you. 


Regards 
Siddharth   
On a Journey of Self-Exploration

Many times we come across people whose presence just enlivens us. With them we feel like we are what we truly are. On the other hand there are people whom we just loathe. They give us the creeps for no apparent reason. even if they are behaving well with us we just don't seem to feel comfortable. Why is it so??

 I have often asked myself this question. and as it happens with most of my questions, it takes me back into a journey called "self exploration". I have come to realise that its not they who make me uncomfortable. it is my own inherent nature that makes me feel in a particular way towards them. Sometimes it is just that we are happy to be with people with whom we get on well. AND THAT IS PERFECTLY FINE. Its just that i feel it will for my own personal growth that i interact with each and everyone. Often talking to others make me look into myself and see where the %&*$ am i going wrong. It is a journey in which the other person is the driver and i am the passenger.

Funnily enough, when the gears are not put at the right time, i tend to go back into my cocoon. Its almost as if the car has come to a grinding halt and does not want to open itself for the fuel to be filled. And i guess that where most of us go wrong. We tend to talk to only those with whom we feel comfortable and not even try to break the ice with those who make us twitch.

It is time to change myself. I can not go on like this. Especially in today's competitive world it is almost imperative to interact with all kind of people. However i do not want to change this nature just because it is the nedd of today's world but to change something of me, To make myself just that little bit better. Hope It happens:-)