On a Journey of Self-Exploration
Many times we come across people whose presence just enlivens us. With them we feel like we are what we truly are. On the other hand there are people whom we just loathe. They give us the creeps for no apparent reason. even if they are behaving well with us we just don't seem to feel comfortable. Why is it so??
I have often asked myself this question. and as it happens with most of my questions, it takes me back into a journey called "self exploration". I have come to realise that its not they who make me uncomfortable. it is my own inherent nature that makes me feel in a particular way towards them. Sometimes it is just that we are happy to be with people with whom we get on well. AND THAT IS PERFECTLY FINE. Its just that i feel it will for my own personal growth that i interact with each and everyone. Often talking to others make me look into myself and see where the %&*$ am i going wrong. It is a journey in which the other person is the driver and i am the passenger.
Funnily enough, when the gears are not put at the right time, i tend to go back into my cocoon. Its almost as if the car has come to a grinding halt and does not want to open itself for the fuel to be filled. And i guess that where most of us go wrong. We tend to talk to only those with whom we feel comfortable and not even try to break the ice with those who make us twitch.
It is time to change myself. I can not go on like this. Especially in today's competitive world it is almost imperative to interact with all kind of people. However i do not want to change this nature just because it is the nedd of today's world but to change something of me, To make myself just that little bit better. Hope It happens:-)
Many times we come across people whose presence just enlivens us. With them we feel like we are what we truly are. On the other hand there are people whom we just loathe. They give us the creeps for no apparent reason. even if they are behaving well with us we just don't seem to feel comfortable. Why is it so??
I have often asked myself this question. and as it happens with most of my questions, it takes me back into a journey called "self exploration". I have come to realise that its not they who make me uncomfortable. it is my own inherent nature that makes me feel in a particular way towards them. Sometimes it is just that we are happy to be with people with whom we get on well. AND THAT IS PERFECTLY FINE. Its just that i feel it will for my own personal growth that i interact with each and everyone. Often talking to others make me look into myself and see where the %&*$ am i going wrong. It is a journey in which the other person is the driver and i am the passenger.
Funnily enough, when the gears are not put at the right time, i tend to go back into my cocoon. Its almost as if the car has come to a grinding halt and does not want to open itself for the fuel to be filled. And i guess that where most of us go wrong. We tend to talk to only those with whom we feel comfortable and not even try to break the ice with those who make us twitch.
It is time to change myself. I can not go on like this. Especially in today's competitive world it is almost imperative to interact with all kind of people. However i do not want to change this nature just because it is the nedd of today's world but to change something of me, To make myself just that little bit better. Hope It happens:-)
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